{"id":25138,"date":"2024-12-04T02:06:45","date_gmt":"2024-12-04T02:06:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/?p=25138"},"modified":"2024-12-04T23:49:36","modified_gmt":"2024-12-04T23:49:36","slug":"health-wellbeing-when-will-i-ever-learn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/?p=25138","title":{"rendered":"HEALTH &amp; WELLBEiNG: When Will I Ever Learn?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bugger! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Had a few drinks. What an effin\u2019 tit! I seem impervious to learning from my mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One thing of note: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I seem most apt to abject tomfoolery in the depths of winter, when very stressed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I\u2019ve done this two days\/nights in a row. On both occasions swearing \u2018never again\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"769\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1644-769x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25146\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1644-769x1024.jpg 769w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1644-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1644-768x1023.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1644-1154x1536.jpg 1154w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1644.jpg 1502w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">The day after (nearing midday!).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the kind of behaviour that leads to ruin, or the AA\/religion. When one\u2019s own inner strengths just aren\u2019t enough, or just aren\u2019t there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve tried AA meetings. My goodness, they\u2019re depressing! Or at least I found the March AA very much so. They\u2019re also generally quite late; 8-9.30 pm. I\u2019m usually in bed by then!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve found, thanks to a helpful AA lady in Wisbech, a daily week-day meeting. But it\u2019s miles away\u2026 in Cambridge. And smack dab in the city centre! So access and cost become issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway, might be worth a try? It\u2019s 12-1 pm, Downing Place, United Reformed Church, Downing St, Cambridge, CB2 3EL.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"732\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1641-1-1024x732.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25142\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1641-1-1024x732.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1641-1-300x214.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1641-1-768x549.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1641-1-1536x1097.jpg 1536w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1641-1.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Looks like they\u2019ve altered this entrance?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are some pics of this lunchtime meeting venue. It\u2019s a building I\u2019ve passed by countless times in my life. Never once been inside, tho\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1642-2-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"wp-image-25157\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1642-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1642-2-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1642-2-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1642-2.jpg 1506w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Poss\u2019 an older photo?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I have to admit I love \u2018proper\u2019 olde churches. Anglican, or \u2018High\u2019, perhaps? Often they\u2019re quite dark n\u2019 fusty. This has the feel of a more utilitarian, plainer (more Protestant?) vibe. But it is pleasingly open and bright. And I note elements of green. My favourite colour. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1643-1-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25144\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1643-1-1024x682.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1643-1-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1643-1-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1643-1-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, http:\/\/www.sebpalmer.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/img_1643-1.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Rather plain interior.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I even watched some snippets from this churches\u2019 YouTube Sunday Worship series. Hmmm!? I liked the olde musick with which they opened \u2018the show\u2019. And I even quite like the idea of singing some good ol\u2019 hymns. It\u2019s the sermonising bit that really puts me off. Oh, and the whole God\/religion schtick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But when you\u2019re lost at sea, being tossed (oo-er, snigger) about in gales of anxieties and emotions? You\u2019ll reach out for any driftwood\u2026 verily, doth the drowning man clutch at straws.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bugger! Had a few drinks. What an effin\u2019 tit! I seem impervious to learning from my mistakes. One thing of note: I seem most apt to abject tomfoolery in the depths of winter, when very stressed. And I\u2019ve done this two days\/nights in a row. On both occasions swearing \u2018never again\u2019. 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